How to show different sides of yourself in an international relationship

Instead of bringing the same mood to every interaction with a woman, you should show different sides of yourself in terms of dating and relationships. Otherwise, a relationship becomes monotonous. Personally, I find a unique combination quite interesting in an international relationship: being serious and silly – this is a great way to create tremendous chemistry and unstoppable attraction.

What is your current default mode in an international relationship?

For most people, there is a default mode in relationships. For example, Simon’s default mode in his relationship is being serious at all times, whereas Zac’s default mode is being humorous all the time. Ideally, a high-value man should show various sides of himself in an international relationship: he is intelligent, silly, serious and relaxed. In this way, he can create attraction easily and effortlessly.

Simon needs to remind his partner that he can be fun as well; Zac needs to make his girlfriend aware of his serious side. An attractive man is definitely a multi-dimensional person.

Perhaps you are not in a perfect relationship and truthfully, no one is perfect. But to be honest, imperfection is good for you because when attraction and obstacles are combined, the result is desire. An imperfect relationship has a built-in obstacle. You have to own your obstacle no matter what kind of imperfection you have in your relationship! You can try to turn each disadvantage into an advantage if you know that every roadblock might bring you closer.

Everyone has some scars and wounds from their history as well as previous relationships/breakups. Honestly, more wounds oftentimes equal more wisdom & your scars can show where you have been in life. When you are building your sense of self-love and inner confidence, no matter what happens, you can always return to the loving home that is you because you give yourself unconditional radical self-love. Even if someone rejects you, that is not a loss of unconditional love as you always have that radical unconditional love for yourself anyway!

Don’t compare your insides to other people’s outsides.

These days a lot of people like posting their beautiful photos on social media to show their amazing lifestyles, e.g., overseas holidays, a happy social life, impressive dinner parties, engagement rings, and so forth.

For many single people, using social media is not good for their mental health. If you are lying in bed alone in your pajamas while looking at others’ Instagram photos, perhaps your loneliness might start to ask you why everyone else is so successful, whereas you are single and lonely.

In this case, my advice for you is to focus on 3 areas of your life: your love life, your career and your wellness. Each day, you can set a realistic goal of achieving 1 small thing in every area on this list, so it’s totally achievable. If this is done every day, your confidence, lifestyle and blueprint will definitely become so much better.