In western countries, it is said that women over 40 years of age have hit the wall, meaning their beauty and good looks are gone; consequently, men don’t find them very attractive anymore. Worse still, every woman has a biological clock, so ladies above 40 years old are becoming more anxious. But does the wall also apply to Russian women over 40?
Surprisingly, many Russian ladies above 40 years old look very youthful.
Russian women are Slavic women. You probably know that Slavic women are the most beautiful women in the world. No wonder President Trump is attracted to Slavic ladies. Indeed, Melania Trump still looks very attractive today (now she is almost 50 years old).
Further examination reveals that Slavic women generally know how to look after themselves better because they highly value beauty and youth. In their culture, a woman’s nice appearance is important. If a woman respects her husband, she should look good for him (he feels happier when his wife looks great).
A friend of mine is a Russian lady. Sometimes I go out for brunch with her on weekends and I notice that she only eats healthy food, e.g. green machine smoothie (kale, spinach, apple and banana), mushrooms, avocado and salad. She is already 41 years old, but she looks like a young lady in her early 30s. I asked her how she maintains her beauty so well, and here is her answer:
“Actually, when I was in my late 20s, I consulted with a professional nutritionist who gave me some solid advice about what I should eat. She told me to eat high-quality vegetables and some fruit every day & avoid all nightshade vegetables such as tomatoes and eggplants. Also, I don’t drink milk and I avoid all dairy foods such as cheese and butter,” says this Russian lady, “You are what you eat.”
This woman from Russia also points out that what she puts on her skin is just as important as what she eats because the skin is the body’s biggest organ and it absorbs nutrition. That’s why she only uses the best skin-care products. Her favorite skin-care products are:
- Diorsnow Purifying Foam
- Chanel LOTION PURETÉ fresh mattifying toner
- Jurlique Rose Moisture Plus Moisturizing Lotion
- Estee Lauder Pure Color Envy Color Replenish Lip Balm
- Clinique Repairwear Anti-Gravity Eye Cream
She has been following this routine for many years; hence, her skin looks smooth, young and very healthy.
Many Russian women have special rituals that help them stay healthy.
When I was living in Russia, I met lots of Russian ladies who have special rituals which help them maintain their health and fitness effectively. Here is a list of their special rituals that I’m aware of:
- They use aroma therapy, including essential oils and candles.
- They do meditation
- They like going to the spa for a massage.
- They cook at home most of the time and rarely dine out.
Further analysis shows that most ladies from Russia really know how to take care of themselves in every way. Small wonder they look very energetic even after they are above 40 years old.
Nina is a 43-year-old lady from Russia who is married to an American husband. Now she has three children, but she still looks like a 33-year-old woman. She told me that she takes a bath with rose essential oil, lavender essential oil and orange essential oil every night before she goes to bed. When she is in the bath, she listens to the music and reads a good book in the candlelight. She has been doing that for more than one decade. That’s her secret sauce.
Sasha is a 40-year-old lady from Russia whose daughter is already 18 years old. When she goes shopping with her daughter, other people often think she must be her daughter’s sister.
“I still have long hair and wear fashionable clothes,” says Sasha, “the fact that I’m not 25 years old anymore doesn’t mean I can’t wear fashionable clothes or have long hair. I never like old ladies’ short hair and boring clothes.”
Obviously, it is Sasha’s attitude towards life and womanhood that keeps her looks wonderful.
The psychology of single Russian women above 40 is a bit different.
In western countries, a lot of childless women in their 30s are off-putting, according to many single men in the dating department.
Indeed, there are many desperate single women in their 30s whose biological clock is running out, which is understandable.
British author George Massey says, “And there they are, looking at you, but staring into their own potentially childless abyss, and if they gaze long into the abyss, the abyss also gazes into them.”
Basically, he is saying whenever he is dating a childless single woman in her 30s in the UK, she is always expecting him to give her a child because her biological clock is ticking.
However, Russian womenare a bit different because they are more honest. By that I mean western women who are concerned wouldn’t actually be honest with others due to their insecurities, yet Russian ladiesare much more honest in this regard.
Let’s have a look at the following two scenarios:
Brook is 39-year-old Australian woman. She is worried because she doesn’t have children. Technically, she should have children before she turns 40 because doctors point out that women should have children before 40 years old.
In Australia, many men think women in their 30s should be easier to get because their biological clock is ticking. But in reality, that’s not true & here is why:
Because Brook desperately wants to get married and have children, whenever she goes out with a man for a date, she looks less natural.
Actually, Brook is thinking, “I have to look like wife material so that he would consider marrying me and having kids with me.”
Because Brook has hit the wall, she is probably going to be buried by the wall with that mindset.
Nina is a 39-year-old Russian lady. She is a childless single woman from Moscow. Because she wants to get married, she has joined an international marriage agency which introduces western men to her – she wants to marry a western husband.
She went to the international marriage agency’s office and described what her standards are as well as what exactly she is looking for in a man. The agent listened to her instructions very carefully and made some notes.
Then the agent introduced several qualified candidates to Nina. Within one year, Nina is happily married to a British husband. Now they live in London, England. Nina is expecting her first child.
Now you can see that Australian woman Brook is possibly playing games with men, whereas Russian woman Nina is very honest: she knows what she wants and she also knows how to get it in an honest, direct and straightforward way.
“Mature women already had their turn. They had their chance. Now it is younger women’s turn.”