The single lifestyle could be a vastly different experience for different individuals: Some people don’t want to be single at all, so they invest very heavily in finding a partner. For example, a friend of mine spent all her income on fashion, grooming, holidays, etc. in order to meet someone and attract a romantic partner. However, there are some people who are single at heart: their single life is the best, most fulfilling, meaningful, authentic and psychologically rich life. As a result, these people aren’t scared of being alone; instead, they are embracing their single life. That’s why they flourish and become desirable partners. Hence, it’s actually much easier for them to find real love faster.

  • Research shows that those who happily embrace their single life tend to find sustainable international relationships

An online dating expert who specializes in international dating conducted a survey and the finding is quite interesting: People who aren’t settling for being single generally succeed in their love lives more quickly. That is to say, those who aren’t scared of being single actually find real love faster.

That study was done on an international dating website, so it is clear that men who are happy with their single life are able to find satisfying international relationships in record time – their lifestyle is wonderful, so women are impressed by them.

This major study indicates that a variety of factors contribute to a happy single life:

  1. Enjoying creativity, freedom and curiosity;
  2. Having great social support;
  3. Having high-quality friendships;
  4. Having a healthy attachment style.

Interestingly, researchers find out that after approximately 35 years of age, single people start to become happier with their single lifestyle. Ironically, because they are happily single, they can find international relationships more efficiently – happy people are attractive people.

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  • How to be happily single now so that you will be very happily married in the future:

First of all, when you are single, you can curate your own life because of the freedom. If you want to change the structure of your day-to-day life, you can do it now. If you want to fly somewhere next week, you can do it, too.

Second, because you are single now, you can leverage your freedom to live a fulfilling and psychologically rich life. You are able to pursue your own interest and passion while living an authentic life which honors your true values as well as who you really are.

Third, when you enjoy the time you have to yourself, you savor your solitude without fearing loneliness. Truthfully, solitude is psychologically enriching and enlightening because you have lots of time to read books, study online programs, explore your passions, start a business, etc.

Next, please remember that your friends and family are just as important as a romantic partner. When you’re single, you have more time for your family and friends! They are here to support you no matter you are single or married.

Last but not least, because you are happily single, you have a radiant inner world which attracts an international relationship naturally.

“Happy single individuals tend to find real love more quickly.”