Dating advice for modern gentlemen looking for authentic relationships

Are you confident and competent enough in the dating department? Do you need any dating advice?

The truth about confidence:

In dating and relationships, real confidence is always backed up by true competence. Truthfully, faking external confidence isn’t hard. However, internal confidence cannot be faked.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying external confidence is useless. Actually, external confidence is also quite important because the way you look, the way you walk and the way you carry yourself can influence the impact you have when you are attracting an Eastern European lady. Yes, the initial attraction is built by your external confidence. Look, without external confidence, a woman isn’t going to look at your internal confidence, okay?

In other words, your external confidence is the gatekeeper!

But if you’d like to have core confidence, you have to have enough competence. Are you a competent dater?

It’s time to develop your real competence by honing your skills and acquiring more knowledge. Most guys avoid talking about their love lives with others, but research shows that a man’s happiness is generally determined by the quality of his love life instead of his career. Does that surprise you?

Indeed, a career may give you a sense of achievement and satisfaction. Nevertheless, if you have no one to share your huge success with, why do you want to be successful in the first place?

Relationship experts argue that the real reason why guys are eager to become wildly successful is that they want to attract high-quality women. They fundamentally know women like successful men.

Incidentally, your external confidence can influence your internal confidence, too. That means when you dress well, you also behave better because your outfit may influence how you feel! Okay. It’s time to throw away your boring and dull clothes & build a new wardrobe. Get rid of those reasons why you can’t wear nice clothes, okay? When I say a new closet, I’m not saying your clothes must be expensive; I mean your clothes must be right.

Personally, I invest in high-quality fashion as I examine cost per wear. A high-quality jacket may cost me US$400, yet it lasts for ten years. By contrast, a low-quality jacket from Kmart is cheap (US$40), but it may last for several months only.

At the same time, I get so much confidence, pride, and joy when I wear a high-quality jacket. But a jacket from Kmart doesn’t excite me at all.

The most important safe dating advice: your frame

No matter you are dating an Eastern European woman or a western woman, you should always avoid being in a woman’s frame.

You are a man, so you are supposed to be the leader in a relationship. You either lead or be misled!

Therefore, don’t let a woman dictate or dominate the relationship. You should be her leader and the ultimate decision-maker in this relationship.

Founder of Quest Nutrition Tom Bilyeu is happily married to Lisa Bilyeu, a very elegant and intelligent lady from the UK. When they got married, Tom told Lisa that they will discuss things before making important decisions. But if they disagree with each other, Lisa would listen to Tom’s advice and follow his guidance, meaning Tom makes decisions!

Obviously, Tom Bilyeu will never lose his frame because he avoids being in a woman’s frame. That’s a very empowered and powerful man. No wonder he is so successful in every way.