How to flirt with a Slavic woman & attract her

You are in a room where people from your social circle are having a party on Saturday night. There is a Slavic woman that you like in this room. You are aware of the fact that a romantic relationship starts with flirting with a woman, so you have decided to get back to basics by looking for an article about how to flirt with women. Now you are reading this blog article right now. 😉

Make more eye contact.

You should make eye contact more than you think you need to. Make it reasonably obvious you are looking at her so that she knows she won’t be embarrassed if she tries to get closer to you. Yes, Slavic women are more honest than Western women, so they might try to talk to you first. In other words, Slavic women generally don’t hide their feelings – if they think the chemistry is real, they will probably want to find it out and discover more about you.

Having said that, it doesn’t mean you should wait until she initiates a conversation with you. Ideally, you would be well-advised to start a conversation with her more proactively because you are a confident modern man. Why not get closer to her and ask her, “How have you been?” Now she feels psychologically closer to you because “How have you been?” makes her feel that she has known you for some time already, whereas “How are you?” sounds much more distant.

Of course, if you would like to minimize the chance of being rejected, you can raise your glass while looking at her after making eye contact. If she also raises her glass, you know it’s on. Then you can get closer to her and ask, “How have you been?” She might be shy and give you a short answer, so you’d better identify conversational links in her response and keep the conversation going naturally and confidently. I’m sure she will be impressed. Please refer to the example below:

YOU: “How have you been?”

HER: “Pretty good. Thanks. How about you?”

YOU: “Your voice is just as pretty as your dress.” (‘Pretty’ is the conversational link in this interaction because you are using a word that she has said previously.)

HER: “Thank you. Your voice is really good as well.”

YOU: “I had some voice training when I was young because I had singing lessons when I was at school.” (Her compliment is the conversational link in this interaction as you are building the conversation based on what she said just now.)

Obviously, this is only an example that gives you an idea of what conversational links are and how to leverage them in your communication with women. 😊

Orchestrate a benevolent collision.

In a room where people are having a social event, it’s all about movement. You can go get a drink, head toward the restroom, etc. Just create moments where it’s relatively easy for the woman that you like to get closer to you.

Personally, I don’t like the term “serendipity” as there is probably an entitlement to it. From my view, real serendipity is to make it as easy as possible for her to engage with you on a social occasion.