After a breakup, many men have realized that international dating is much less stressful for them, which is true. As far as I know, Eastern European women are more easy-going – they are not high-maintenance woman.
- If you’re about to call or text your ex, do something productive instead!
If you’re down about being alone, remember: solitude is a good thing. It’s important for your own growth – you need to have solitude in order to learn and grow. Robert Greene famously said, “If a person can’t stand loneliness, this person can only go so far in life, because doing any kind of great work requires the ability to be alone.”
Think about who you want to be, and become that person. Let’s say you want to be someone who is dating an Eastern European woman, then you should join an international dating website that introduces Eastern European ladies to western men.
Have an identify statement for yourself. That’s what you will bring to your next relationship.
If you’re going crazy with jealousy because your ex has found a new partner, you must have standards to demand what a woman needs to aspire to. If you are worried that your ex is the only woman left, then just go out and be proactive. Or you can stay at home and join an international dating site. Indeed, nowadays online dating is mainstream, so all you need to look for is a safe online dating experience.
If your ex doesn’t come back, she is not your soulmate, no matter how much you want her. The world is your buffet – you can pick the woman you want.
If you’re worried that your life has lost its meaning without your ex, just remember: your worst problem is somebody else’s dream scenario – can you imagine how many children are starving to death each year in Africa? If a bad breakup is the most painful thing in your life, then you’ve never had a real problem in your life.
Enjoy being single now. You will be in a relationship for a long time in the future. Choose to be happy. Yes, happiness is a choice; it’s a decision. Write down ten things that you are grateful for now. Focus on the good. Build your resilient muscles. Even though the painful breakup is traumatic, you can have Post-Traumatic Growth rather than Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Be patient. Take the time it deserves to heal first. You already have all the resources that you need to recover, so now it’s only a matter of time and effort/diligence.
- How to permanently get rid of jealousy:
First, note that women adhere to the parameters you set them. You decide what’s cool and what’s not. That’s the dynamic you set for the rest of the relationship. Therefore, you should play the honesty card without any intense emotions. Be relaxed and be in control. Let’s say your girlfriend flirted with another guy in front of you, you can say, “I have to tell you that what you did was not cool, for you to do that is just not a turn-on.”
If she carries on, you drop the affection, but you need to show her that you are not angry.
If she carries on, you back off & build your life gradually – let her feel that she is losing you. She is not getting your time anymore. Don’t get upset. Don’t try and make her jealous. Don’t give her ultimatum. A high-value man is in demand and has a fantastic life he is proud of. A high-value guy really enjoys life, has genuine core confidence and thinks he is attractive. This high-value guy treats people well because he is classy.
A high-value person doesn’t even retaliate – he doesn’t make an attack in return for a similar attack.
Normally, after hearing “that is just not a turn-on”, your Eastern European girlfriend will realize that flirting with other men or getting other men’s attention isn’t a good way to make you love her more. It will only make you lose respect for her. After telling her that, you should give her a few days to process what you’ve told her!
If you become jealous and pay attention to her tremendously, she will think, “Oh, flirting with other men is an effective way to get my boyfriend’s attention, so I should do this again in the future.”
Always reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. If you get jealous, you are actually rewarding her bad behavior because you are giving her more attention after she has flirted with other men. That’s not what you want!
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