How to explore both offline dating and online dating

Offline dating and online dating should totally be combined if you are looking for love.

Offline dating is not safe anymore unless you go to nightclubs or meet women in your social circle.

Indeed, trying to meet women in the street or shopping malls has become inappropriate right now (you don’t want to be arrested), so offline dating is quite limited nowadays – you can only meet women in nightclubs or in your existing social circle.

The problem is when you meet women in nightclubs, chances are these women aren’t looking for relationships. It’s very, very, very, very difficult to meet an elegant woman who is wife material in a nightclub. Therefore, men who are looking for serious relationships don’t want to go to nightclubs.

As for meeting women in your existing social circle, the challenge is you only know so many women in your life. Maybe you can meet 1-5 eligible women in this way per year, but this number is too limited – it’s hard to choose a high-quality woman if you don’t even meet a large number of women in the first place. Remember: in order to find quality, quantity totally matters.

So, the conclusion is meeting women in real life is not even practical if you are looking for a good wife and living in an English-speaking country. As a result, you probably have to try online dating.

Use online dating as your main method, and offline dating should be an add-on.

As I see it, since online dating is the primary way to meet women if you are a guy from an English-speaking country, you have to know how to do it in the right ways.

First and foremost, you’d better invest in professional photos and a dating coach’s advice for your dating profile. This will minimize the stress when it comes to waiting for women to respond to your messages because a high-quality dating profile is your best advertisement on an online dating website.

In the second place, you should join more than one online dating site so that you can maximize your chance of meeting a high-value woman for a meaningful, serious and long-term relationship. Quantity leads to quality in the dating department. If you choose one out of one option, I can almost guarantee that it’s not a good choice. But if you have 50 options in front of you, it should be easier for you to find a woman who meets your standards.

Next, don’t worry about rejections on online dating sites because that’s very normal. You should see it as statistics instead of taking it personally. As a matter of fact, if you do things in the right way, you should be rejected because that means you’ve tried your best. In contrast, if women don’t reject you at all, that means you can do better than that (don’t reach for the low-hanging fruit only).

When it comes to offline dating, it should be an add-on if you are a man from an English-speaking country where the mainstream media influence the dating scene dramatically. I have discovered that the biggest dating advice company Real Social Dynamics has deleted all of their dating advice YouTube videos which teach men how to approach women in real life. Also, British dating coach Richard la Ruina points out that it’s almost impossible to run a dating advice business in English-speaking countries nowadays because the mainstream media and the Establishment want to control the dating scene completely – if a male dating coach is teaching men how to meet women in real life, he is considered evil in contemporary society. Sad but true.

Hence, in terms of your add-on (offline dating), you can only leverage your existing social circle: Have a Happy Hour every Thursday night and ask your friends to bring their friends. When you meet their friends, you can ask those people to bring their friends as well next time. That’s how you become a social hub and meet many people, including single women looking for love.