How to succeed in online dating faster and find a beautiful relationship

Whenever you have some high standards in the online dating world, you narrow your pool of candidates. Let’s say you have decided that you would like to date someone intelligent – now I’m pretty sure that you immediately narrow your pool because not everyone is intelligent enough for you. This is definitely a good thing as it will get you the right woman more quickly.

Be more direct in a charming way.

When you are chatting with women on an online dating website, please remember that you can be more direct because sending messages on the Internet requires more clarity. Otherwise, chatting online can be more confusing than having a conversation with someone in person. How many times have you misunderstood someone else’s text messages? How many times have other people misunderstood your text messages in the past? That can happen, so please be more direct while communicating with women online. Of course, you are supposed to do it in a more charming way: Whenever you communicate your standards and boundaries with a woman, you can add a smiley face or a wink emoji to the message so that she will surely find your message more endearing. Meanwhile, you are able to communicate your expectations clearly and cleanly.

If something goes wrong in your dating life, please don’t dwell on it because you would be well-advised to remember that most relationship issues are common – a lot of people go through the same problems as well. Chances are the pain you are experiencing is the most vanilla problem in the world as it’s quite commonplace – almost everyone has to deal with the pain of relationship problems in their life. Hence, you are not alone at all. Honestly, I’d like you to give the pain you feel less meaning, so that you can learn the lessons and move on in time.

How to break rapport and create massive attraction:

Breaking rapport is a part of being challenging – you and a woman have very different viewpoints on certain topics – and that’s totally normal; that’s absolutely fine. Nobody wants to date someone who says yes to everything. Nobody is keen to date someone who agrees with them on everything.

If you tend to be a people-pleaser, perhaps it’s time to get out of your people-pleaser mode by voicing your opinion. Don’t be afraid to “rock the boat”. In my view, challenging her viewpoint at times is actually quite necessary to long-term attraction and challenge can come in the form of playful teasing or genuine/intelligent debate.

Indeed, when you build rapport and then break rapport with a woman on an online dating site, the chemistry grows. You are able to build unstoppable attraction by doing this because you are increasing your perceived value and perceived challenge when you have your own opinion! Of course, you don’t need to become opinionated, but you do need to have your own opinion at times.