Looking forward to the first date with a Slavic woman? The most common question we get asked is “What should I talk about on the first date?” Now we are going to share the answer with you in this blog post!

⦁ A highly effective date can be 10 times more powerful than ten average dates.

Now I’m going to show you an example of good conversations on the first date.

MAN: “What do you enjoy doing for fun?”

WOMAN: “I love reading. I have both Kindle and Libby on my phone. I have hundreds of eBooks on Kindle and I borrow books from the library via Libby every week.”

MAN: “Some people say when a hobby becomes a job, it’s not fun anymore. But I have a feeling that if you have a job about language/writing/editing, it will still be fun for you.”

WOMAN: “That’s why I was a teacher for many years. Now although I’m a retail worker, I still have some freelance writing gigs.”

MAN: “That’s fantastic because variety makes your life interesting. Why do you work in retail?”

WOMAN: “Some people work in retail because they don’t have a qualification. Our company’s state manager has a Bachelor of Psychology, but she chooses to work in retail because she genuinely likes fashion, shoes, bags, jewelry and makeup. Also, because she studied psychology before, she reads the customer like an open book, and she always shares her insights into sales with us. I work in retail because I am very passionate about fashion, shoes, bags, jewelry and makeup as well. By the way, I’m not the most superficial person in the world. I like these because I feel very inspired by artistic expression – the artistic and creative design energizes me tremendously. I just feel alive when I work in the retail environment. What’s more, because I have a full-time retail job, every week I spend 38 hours standing instead of sitting in front of a computer all day long. It is said that sitting is the new smoking, so I’m lucky. And because I have some freelance writing gigs after work, I still sit in front of the computer at home – I’m sure this is a way to strike the balance.”

MAN: “Now I know you are good at retail and writing. What do you suck at?”

WOMAN: “I’m not good at math. I almost failed the Math exam at school. I also never really enjoyed doing the till in the retail store, but I still have to do it anyway. After practicing doing the register repeatedly, my counting has improved. As I have to overcome this challenge, this daily practice has even helped me to overcome OCD. I can do that because now I have to! I guess every profession has pros and cons, so it’s only a matter of which problem I’m willing to deal with.”

In this conversation, he asks questions and she answers questions. Basically, he is guiding the direction of the conversation, whereas she provides more information. Therefore, he is able to discover this Slavic woman’s feelings, emotions, motivations, and blueprint.

⦁ Make the first date amazingly meaningful.

No, the first date doesn’t have to be mind-blowingly impressive in order to be memorable. Actually, a meaningful first date can be very unforgettable if you are a well-spoken conversationalist.

A well-spoken conversationalist knows how to ask the right questions at the right time. For instance, instead of asking standard and boring questions that are usually asked during job interviews, a switched-on conversationalist asks unconventional questions like “What is the geekiest thing about you?” and “What are you most excited about now?” because these questions help you understand the Slavic woman better – you’ll know her unique qualities quickly.

“An effective dater doesn’t ask too many questions because the person who asks too many questions has less power. An effective dater listens to their date carefully.”