Insights into love, relationships and international dating

This blog post will reveal certain uncomfortable truths which might be something that you do not want to hear. But that’s exactly what you should know. Are you ready for that? All right, let’s begin!

Are you needy?

Ladies and gentlemen can be equally needy when their self-esteem is low. When a man is emotionally needy, he can only meet and attract low-value ladies. This is sad but true. If you actually feel emotionally needy to some degree, you should review every asset you bring to the table to reaffirm your true worth. You may make a list of your great traits and qualities as well as reasons why a high-value lady from Eastern Europe would choose you. Look, radical self-love could replace the unhealthy craving for attention, affection and admiration from just anybody. Please do not allow low-value people to ruin your love life!

Are you giving your life to destiny? I know some guys went through lots of pain and trauma. As a consequence, they have already given their love lives to destiny. If you think life and love are predestined, you’d be glad to know that you’re still in control of your own destiny. I mean your beliefs shape your destiny. When you complain about something, it merely means you think something outside of you is controlling your life. When you complain about somebody, it just means you think somebody else dictates your situation or your life. So, you should totally take your own power back. Never allow your life to operate at the mercy of destiny or anything or anyone else, okay? You are 100% responsible for your own life from now on.

Are you actually ready? If you still want to wait until you’re 100% ready, you might wait for the rest of your life, for perfection never arrives. Truthfully, perfection is probably a joke. Never allow how you feel to stop you from meeting the love of your life. What’s more, rather than getting ready for love, you can stay ready for love. That means you’re always ready. You do not have to be perfect in order to be ready. If the woman from Eastern Europe that you’ve met on an international dating website is not perfect, then why should you achieve perfection?

Be choosy before you get married.

First of all, if a woman chooses you due to her own fear, it’s a red flag. When a woman marries a man for the wrong reasons, they will be divorced. For example, if a woman marries a guy because she is desperate and cannot put up with loneliness, then I can almost guarantee that she will be a mess after getting married because marriage isn’t for the immature.

Next, if a woman is selfish, she is not going to be a good wife. When you are dating a woman, please observe how she treats her family. If she is selfish, you will know it based on the dynamics in her family. Marriage is for the mature, not for naïve and selfish women. Please note that marriage is about giving value and that’s something generous people do.

When you and your girlfriend are having a dinner party with friends, pay attention to her behavior. If she is completely self-involved at the table, it’s a red flag. She is supposed to take care of others if she is wife material.