If you are above 35 years of age and looking for love, this article will surely give you some inspirational ideas regarding safe dating.

  • Women like youthful men (not young men).

Interestingly, a lot of people associate attractiveness with youth.  However, they overlook the fact that the most practical definition of youth is more than a certain age.

As I see it, being youthful is all about being passionate, energetic and active. It’s not really about the birthday on your ID. In fact, it’s a lifestyle and a mindset.

So, if you are fascinated by your hobbies & have curiosity about life, you are definitely a high-value man that can attract women. In other words, you should focus on cultivating youthfulness in you.

  • Instead of getting ready, why not stay ready?

Yes, it’s important to prepare for every date and get ready before going out. But I would argue that you should wear your best clothes even when you are not going out for a date. Please let me explain.

If you stay ready, you won’t need to get ready. Because you don’t know who you’ll meet today, you’d better present the best version of who you are every single day. In this way, you will maximize your chance of meeting someone suitable. Perhaps you’ll meet the woman of your dreams while you are on the train today.

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  • If you are a senior dater….

Men who are above 50 years old are senior daters in the online dating space. If you’re a senior dater, I have some good news for you: Now your dating life is probably at the least stage. Let me explain.

When you were younger, you were possibly thinking of having children. As a young man in his 20s or 30s, if starting a family is his goal of looking for a relationship, stress is more likely to take place – his lack of experience, scarcity mindset as well as desperation might lead to major wrong decisions – marrying the wrong person, recovering from a divorce, and so on.

If you are older and already have children, maybe right now you aren’t looking for a mother of your children, so your ideal candidate doesn’t need to be under a certain age. That is to say, you are allowed to fall in love with a woman who is actually suitable according to your standards, expectations, values, boundaries and lifestyle (she is someone that can truly make you satisfied in life). As a result, now you can be more relaxed. Yes, right now you can afford to do what is definitely right for you (you know who suits you and how to enjoy life). Indeed, it’s time to meet someone that really makes you genuinely happy. When you have this new mindset, I’m sure you will have a safe dating experience and will find real love.

“Senior daters who have adult children can best savor their love lives because they aren’t worried about starting families. That’s why they have less to think about and can enjoy safe dating experiences more easily.”