Let’s embrace opportunities and find love!

It turns out that what really stops you from finding love is your mindset! Are you ready to seize every opportunity?

Don’t accept less than what you deserve.

When somebody shows you who they are, you should believe them the first time!

Are you looking for excuses to justify why you should continue seeing that person who does not give you what you deserve?

If you are dating someone who doesn’t respect you, it’s time to say no. Saying no gives you the new opportunity to say yes later when the right person comes along.

Also, sometimes you just have to say no in order to feel that you deserve something better!

Don’t avoid being the center of attention at social events.

Are you often quiet whenever you go to parties?

If you constantly avoid being the center of attention, finding love is going to be hard because in order to attract someone, you must get their attention first.

Know what you deserve.

If you are perfectly fine with being single and nobody is good enough for you, chances are you can’t find love.

Independence is great – you have a career, a social circle, hobbies, etc. But your love life is also important – you need someone to share your success with.

Don’t worry about whether the person you are dating has a degree / a high-profile job / a fancy car. You’d better figure out whether that person makes you feel supported, respected, and cared for. Stop objectifying the date and start connecting with them!

When somebody makes a consistent effort in order to know you a bit more, you would be well-advised to let them in a bit more, as long as you think they are pretty good.

Be a lovable person.

Darren Hayes has a song called Unlovable which describes how he felt when his ex-partner broke up with him.

Do you believe you are lovable or not?

If you think you must find a real job / move out of your parents’ house / upgrade your wardrobe & then you will become lovable, yes you can do that first.

Some women feel unlovable simply because they think they need to lose weight / wear makeup / etc. – My advice for them is to do that first – if losing weight or wearing makeup makes someone more confident, it means that’s a good idea! Why not do it?

Similarly, some men feel unlovable just because they are overweight / do not have a successful career / etc. My suggestion for them is to fix that first because these problems have real solutions in reality. Why not take action now?