A healthy romantic relationship with a Ukrainian woman is best characterized by two aspects: structure and spontaneity. Ideally, you need to strike a balance between structure and spontaneity.

  • Structure provides your relationship with strength.

In my view, structures motivate and ground you. You know that your relationship with a Ukrainian woman is serious, so you have very strong relationship certainty and confidence.   

Examples of structure in a romantic relationship:

  1. Both of you know that it’s a serious, long-term relationship. Exclusivity has been confirmed.
  2. You have a very clear shared vision in this relationship. Your blueprint together is very exciting.
  3. You and your partner have compatible value systems. You respect the way she spends her free time; she also respects the way you spend your spare time. 
  4. Your family and her family can co-exist.
  5. Your social circle and her social circle get along well with each other.
  6. Your personality and her personality complement each other pretty well.
  7. You and your partner travel together at least once a year, have a date day once a month, have a date night once a week. You cherish these shared activities when you spend quality time together.

  • Spontaneity provides your relationship with excitement. 

You have to be spontaneous at times in order to add some flavors to your relationship with a Ukrainian woman. Variety is indeed the spice of life. Here are some examples of spontaneity: 

  1. You surprise your partner by sending her flowers on a random day just because you want to express your love and appreciation. 
  2. You have a dinner date at home. Suddenly, the delivery guy is at the door because you’ve ordered dessert to surprise your partner in a good way.
  3. When you come back home from a business trip, you bring your partner a meaningful gift to make her happy.
  4. You send a text message to your partner just to let her know that you love her truly, madly, deeply. 
  5. You take your partner to your work event and let her see that you are admired and respected by so many people from your workplace.

“Have you found a balance between structure and spontaneity in your relationship?”