Sometimes love life can become dull because if you’ve been dating the same person for a long time, the interactions may seem stagnant. In that case, the spark might disappear gradually, so you have to know how to shake up your dating life, thereby enjoying international dating more thoroughly. 

  • Why is change a good thing?

Everything changes & nothing stays still. You can’t step twice into the same river. The only constant in life is change, according to the Greek philosopher Heraclitus.

I’ve noticed something interesting: In 2014 and 2015 when I was pursuing more and more personal development, some friends in my life at that time didn’t like the change – I started to read a lot of books, whereas all they wanted to do was to watch TV. That’s why they told me not to read more books or hire seasoned mentors. Consequently, we began to have nothing in common & I started to have new friends who actually share the same values with me.

Change isn’t necessarily pleasant, but it’s inevitable. And it’s a beautiful thing because it gives you new opportunities to live your life on the next level.

Recently, a friend of mine from work has resigned. Now he has a much better job in a well-known organization. Because we were very close at work, his resignation made me a bit sad. During his final week with me in the workplace, our friendship was taken to the next level because his departure made us feel closer to each other psychologically – we exchanged best wishes, very meaningful farewell presents and more online interactions. Because I’m an experienced writer, after he left I even wrote a poem for him which has strengthened our bond instantly. That means without his resignation, we probably wouldn’t be so close today. Now we have a much deeper and better understanding of our friendship, so our friendship has become more meaningful. Clearly, every coin has two sides – I know this is absolutely a cliché, but it’s true. 

International dating

  • How to shake up your dating dynamics:

If you are keen to make some changes in your international dating dynamics, you must come up with new ideas that will make your relationship dynamic and interesting… again!

First of all, you would be well-advised to change the method of communication. Let’s say previously, you were communicating with your lady via text messages. Now you should consider calling her more often and letting her hear your voice more frequently. If you call her every day, she will surely miss you so much when she doesn’t hear your voice for one day. But if you rarely call her, now it’s time to call her and say, “Oh, nothing much. I just would like to hear your voice right now.” 😉

Second, you can do something extraordinary at times so that your girlfriend will know that you are a remarkable man! 😊 For instance, you might write a romantic poem for her or write a love letter to her. You may even write a memoir and one chapter is about her! Be creative and think outside the box.

Next, it’s so important to have something that both of you are looking forward to because you need a shared vision in order to succeed in international dating. Do you have any plans to get married soon? Are you keen to prepare an engagement party? Who are you going to invite to your beautiful wedding? Will you have children within a few years? These are some great topics to discuss with your girlfriend.

“When you build a shared blueprint with your girlfriend, the emotional connection becomes so much stronger.”